If you ask the Danes the secret to happiness, they’ll probably mention hygge long before they talk about money or ambition. Hygge isn’t just a Danish word you see on Pinterest in the fall—it’s a feeling, a way of making ordinary moments comforting and special. And as November rolls in and our book club nights take on their own glow, there’s no better time to learn how to bring more hygge into our gatherings (and our lives).